I’m a business owner 💻
I’m a writer ✍️
I’m a green thumb enthusiast 🌿

I was all these things, and more, before I was “mum” and for a while there I forgot I existed outside of that title.

The first years were eclipsed by feeding & sleep routines then it was surviving life with two 👧🏻👦🏻

And before I knew it, all I was was “mum”.

Hobbies & interests fell by the wayside. Hot topics of discussion ranged from baby poo to what to pack in a “nude” lunch box 🥪

Every spare thought and moment revolved around my kids, or something kid adjacent.

Heck, I was still wearing bras from before becoming a mum even crossed my mind (so I can assure you after breastfeeding two kids, they no longer fit right 🙃) meanwhile my kids were running around in new clothes every season.

But it dawned on me as I entered a new decade that I either find myself again or risk continuing this cycle and further lose my identity.

So here I am, 3yrs into my rebuild and it’s still a journey of discovery. Join me as we unpack the fact that we’re not just mums, we’re so much more.

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